Chemical Pregnancy

Hi hi, unfortunately 2 months ago went through a chemical miscarriage and it didn’t affect me until now. My boyfriend and I also broke up around that time so he isn’t around anymore. I’ve been a mess crying and grieving my baby and my friends haven’t been much help. Instead of support I’ve just been constantly been told that it shouldn’t affect me too much bc I was only about 5 weeks so it’s “too early to grieve” and that the time wasn’t right anyways bc my boyfriend isn’t in the picture and that i’m “too young (22) to take care of a baby.” When I found out I was pregnant I wasn’t sure what decision I would make considering my boyfriend and I had just broken up and I come from a broken home and I did not want that for my baby. Since I considered possibly abortion, my friends have just been telling me there’s no reason to be sad because I thought about possibly not keeping it so I shouldn’t be upset since I didn’t have to make the decision after the miscarriage. I feel so alone and helpless regarding this and I don’t have a good support system. Any words of support ? I’ve been praying for better days and mood but I can’t help but feel the loss of my baby. ;(