How much should you bleed and for how long?

Lizzy

Hi ladies! So I just recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend and I was looking for some advice. I was expecting to bleed whenever he went all the way in but I didn’t immediately. The next day I was at work and I noticed some very faint blood in my panties. I was just assuming that maybe I did bleed but it was just a little bit and it didn’t get out all the way. Well today, I started bleeding heavily but I already had my period last week and I never go twice in the same month unless it just stops for like a day and comes back, which it did this month. But it doesn’t feel like normal period blood if that makes sense. I’m not sure if it’s delayed bleeding, if it’s my period, if it’s both? We were safe and used condoms and check the condoms before and after use. I am just not sure what to think. I think I should go to my OBGYN for this, but I still live with my parents and they are strongly against premarital sex and even though I am 19 and technically grown with a big girl job (I’m a literal Advanced EMT), my parents would raise absolute HELL about it. Especially my father who has a very…interesting way of doing things (he’s not a abusive or anything he just doesn’t believe that I should have boundaries with him and expects me to tell him every tiny detail about my life). I would just love some advice from you ladies, I’m kinda freaking out here.