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Personally I wouldn’t want to raise a child with someone I haven’t known long, didn’t intentionally get pregnant with, doesn’t want to be involved and I wasn’t financially and physically able. Ultimately it’s your choice, but none of that sounds appealing to me. I don’t intend to bring kids into a cruel world with their home life already working against them.
Bf wants me to have an abortion or morning after pill and I don't want too, UPDATE!
My bf and I just recently found out after not long of dating that I'm pregnant and he wants me to get an abortion... I don't believe in it, he doesn't want it at all..Tells me we are in not in the position for a child, which we aren't. But why the fuck do I have to be given an ultimatum about what I want to keep?
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Update: He is on board with it now, he tripped because we aren't in the position to have kids right now so.... We are getting through it togetherness one day at a time..
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If he's not around then that's on him... I have other kids that I take care of very well....
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I don’t think it’s an ‘if,’ you’ve already decided. He doesn’t like your decision. He’s not obligated to stay around, but he’ll be on the hook financially. Ultimately you’re both old enough to know how babies are made. So now you’re both stuck with the consequences of your irresponsibility.
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Honestly I don't think he's going to stay around if I keep it
Here's the deal, sex has a possibility of pregnancy right. He knows that but clearly thinks if he throws a fit or threatens you about consequences you will do what he wants you to do. I can't tell you how many people I have come accross who have had an abortion (for the guy) to only regret it when the relationship ended shortly afterwards. Children are not mistakes and there is a purpose for every life created. It is never the right time, and I'm not sure if you are religious but don't do it. This will cause you so much pain and remorse it's not even funny. Give this baby a chance. Chose your baby over him! You can do this!
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