Didn’t think I would be here buttt here I am 😩🤦🏽‍♀️

I just turned 30 January 4 and I have been trying to conceive for at least over nine months now I’m not sure the tricks I’ve been in my fertile window you know doing a deed and I recently just reached out to my doctor to see what my options are they suggested IUI, but I do not knowthe process of that. Do you guys know by any chance and if you do, can you let me know what will happen in that process. I know everybody’s different, but can you tell me what you experience and how long did it take? Am I doing something wrong