I’m pregnant…. AND I FEEL SO BAD😭

Me and my husband have 3 children. I recently found out we are expecting our 4th child. This was a total shock. I’m honestly not even sure when or how it happened because we were using multiple preventive measures. 😭😭 My sister in law (husband’s brothers wife) is also expecting a surprise (3rd) baby, in her late 30s, she was done about 10 years ago and this one popped up and surprised us. 🤪

Anywho, the main point of writing this is my other sister in law (husbands sister) is struggling to get pregnant. After having a miscarriage last year she hasn’t been able to fall pregnant again. She was hurt when my brother in laws wife fell pregnant accidentally and she’s going to be devastated if she finds out about me!😭😭😭 I genuinely just feel so bad for her and know this will put a major strain on our relationship. She has no earthside children and her and her husband have been together almost 12 years. Sorry for all the rambling i’m just so STRESSED! I didn’t even want to be pregnant right now we wanted to wait (many years!) 😩 as our youngest will only be 2 when this one is born. Idk i’m just looking for maybe advice, encouragement, or some tips on being a mom of 4. 🫣