Bf ungrateful
My bf got laid off so he’s been playing video games all day and lounging the apartment. I don’t mind at all, just letting him cope with what happened and trying my best to be supportive. Yesterday he hung with his friends and today he went to the city with family friends. I work full time, including today I worked a full shift and came home and immediately decided to make him some dinner. I’m usually the one to cook and do laundry. He takes the garbage out and does the dishes. I usually unload the dishwasher and made sure to do it today so his job is easier. Basically he came in the door in a bad mood said he’s really tired and he said “I wish sometimes I didn’t have to come home to all these dishes in the sink and you would do it.” I just stared at him blankly bc there were dishes from him and his friends to begin with from yesterday so it did pile up I’ll admit but I was really tired too and made a nice dinner for him. We weren’t talking now, I’m furious and feel really unloved. I woke up at 5AM he got to sleep in and he’s the one complaining?!?!
Mind you, the one time I did load the dishwasher he said I didn’t put things in there properly… so? I just feel sad.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.