I’ve moved to a very small place to be with my guy. We are due to be married in a few months.

I cannot get over how over the top and damn right disrespectful the woman are here.

Whenever we are out in a bar, party or even a wake, woman can’t be polite to me and speak! I blame small town mentality.

I am pleasant, approachable and friendly. I’m bubbly and can chat to anyone !

These woman act in a very superficial way and thrive on the attention of men!!

My guy seems to have no boundaries and it’s really causing an issue in our relationship.

We were out last night and it was a low key comedy gig. We were having a quiet drink and a girl who had stared at me a few times suddenly comes over and hugs him from behind. She seems to know my guy. Then she puts her arms around his neck and hugs him, messes with her hair and just seemed to try to get a reaction off me ! I didn’t not lower to her standards and do this.

This has happened in the past with woman trying to sit on my guys knee. All people he knows from this town. They are mainly married woman and I feel my husband to be is very much disrespecting my but not saying NO! By not standing up, or moving. Last night he was kind of stuck as she was standing and him sitting. But he didn’t even bother to introduce me to her. She was sitting to close for me to ask.

So today I asked and the arguments it’s caused !!

These woman are only have the problem. He’s the other half in my eyes!!!!!

How do I deal with this crap and get him to stop participating in this.

It’s pathetic of them to want to hurt me and get a reaction. I know they can’t be happy to engage in this behaviour.

He sees no wrong in it often and I’m so angry over this !!! It is very wrong.

It’s a tight knit community and they are not welcoming to outsiders! But at 40 odd you don’t just go around hugging men and wanting the attention.

I tell my guy, funny their husbands are never there when they do this!!!! They are outside smoking etc,So therefore, they know it’s unacceptable!