Should I celebrate or wait for confirmation?

La

La

So I have been testing everyday since Sunday 3/2 and all tests have been positive. I had a miscarriage back in December 2023 and I have been trying to conceive off and on for the last year with no luck. My period has not started, but I have had a few drops of brown discharge for the last two days but no red.  I wanna get excited, but I can’t because I’m in fear that it may end up in another miscarriage. Should start celebrating or kick back and wait for the confirmation at my doctors appointment next week?

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After 2 back to back losses I’m pregnant again. I personally was so anxious and just on eggshells. I realized I’ve lost my joy completely so I decided just to take it day by day and to just wake up and be excited to still be pregnant. I told two close friends and went out to dinner to celebrate. It’s been hard to stay optimistic but day by day things are easier to deal with.

La

La • Mar 7
@S Congratulations again!! I can definitely relate to the nervousness when going in for a scan. You are definitely being positive about it all despite being nervous or anxious. That’s a milestone in itself. I’m wishing you the best of luck with this pregnancy and hope you get to meet your new bundle of joy in person 💝

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S • Mar 6
Thank you, I’m 11 weeks. You can celebrate each small milestone. Making it to Tuesday is a great reason to celebrate. With my previous pregnancies I never got an ultrasound so when I actually made it to the ultrasound and everything was okay I felt so good. Even if I lose this baby at least I got to see it. I don’t think the anxiety is going to go away. Unfortunately every appointment or scan I’m super nervous but one day at time. I’m sending you so many positive thoughts! I really hope this is your sticky bean!!!

La

La • Mar 6
First off, congratulations 🎊 You should be excited and I love that you celebrated. How far along are you? Yes, you’re right I should take a day by day which I am trying to do. I have told a few of my coworkers about my positive test, but of course I’m still anxious because I just want this to be a successful pregnancy. I hope that I can make it to Tuesday for my doctor appointment so I can celebrate too.