Tinder red flags?

I'm wary of this guy.. analyse this with me, am I overthinking?

So I started talking to this guy because he looked okay and his profile said his personality would open your heart (Is that a red flag? Idk but I kinda liked it because I thought it indicated emotional availability and EQ, not so sure about that now, now I feel he's into lovebombing or something, even though he doesn't necessarily give lovebombing-vibes yet)

so the red flags on this guy would be : His ex had made (aledgedly fake) abuse reports on him (because he discovered her cheateing) for which he hadn't seen his kid for a while and they're court ordered rebuilding a visitation schedule.

He said his lawyer will "get his kid back" but has no idea how he'll handle co-parenting with his ex (he has no desire to and his messages doesn't indicate an acceptance that his daughter might some day have free wil but that's me reading between the lines)

He also mentioned it would be a "good look" if he's dating a woman with a child/children (which makes me feel like my kid would be unsafe with this guy, I can't really pinpoint why I feel that way)

He doesn't know how to spend time with himself.

Update: guess it doesn't matter. He unmatched me 🤷‍♀️🤣

I'd been asking him questions - basically every answer made me cringe and I told him he hadn't asked me any questions at all and his response was "I'll be interested when you're on top of me" eww.

so I said "Excuse me?" and then he unmatched 🤷‍♀️🤣