This girl thinks she’s gonna be my bridesmaid..
So I’ve only known this girl for a little amount of time and I feel like she’s trying to get really close with me so she’s invited to the wedding. She brought up how she’s gonna be in/at my wedding but I’m not completely comfortable with her like that yet- especially to be a bridesmaid when I’m only inviting immediate family and the girls I’ve picked out to be my bridesmaid and my maid of honor. How do I let her down easy?? Do I just not say anything and not invite her or be upfront and say only immediate family is coming. I don’t wanna hurt her feelings but again I don’t believe her intentions are true.
UPDATE!!!!
I told her that we’re only inviting immediate family and picking a small venue and she’s still insisting she’s going to be invited. She keeps brining up how her sister can make the wedding cake (hence having to drive it 4 hours away) and how I’m gonna be one of her bridesmaids (probably a tatic to make me feel guilty). I really don’t know how else to go about this. I’ve tried being nice. I think I’m just gonna have to either straight up tell her no or not say anything at all and have her find out in her own.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.