Defeated

We’ve been trying almost a year, I stopped nursing two months ago. This was my first full blown cycle since having my son. I confirmed my progesterone rise and I had an opk as well as bbt to confirm ovulation did occur. This was Saturday 3/8 so I should be roughly 8dpo. I just don’t feel like I’m pregnant so I automatically feel so defeated. Has anyone only gotten positive tests past 9dpo??