Husband Created A Baby Outside Of Marriage

Hello. I’ve been married to my husband for 11 or so years. We’re high school sweethearts. We have three kids together. A little over a year ago, I found out my husband was cheating on me. With everything that is happening in America right now, lord knows I can’t support three children on my own. So I made the tough decision to forgive him and work on our marriage. Called me stupid or whatever, but I refused to put my kids through poverty and everything else that single mothers go through. Life is good with my husband and I’m able to be there to fully support my kids whenever they need me. My husband and I later found out that the girl he cheated on me with was pregnant. I still made the hard decision to stay and work on my marriage. We expressed that to her. She wasn’t happy and thought the baby would make me leave him, giving her the opportunity to be with him. Fast forward, she ends up keeping and having the baby. Being that my husband works 12 hours every day and I’m a stay at home mom that works on weekends sometimes, we wanted to make it to where we had the baby 50% of the time or more, so my husband wouldn’t have to pay child support. She didn’t like that idea. She said she didn’t want being a happy family with her baby. So she took us to court.

Long story short, we ended up winning and getting 80% of custody of her 8 month old. And she now has to pay us $250 a month and she gets him on the weekends.

She recently went on social media and is basically saying bad things about me every single day. Saying things like why would I stay after a baby and talking down on my name. All of this is a lot for me, because I had recently given birth myself and was going through postpartum when all this went down. I’m just at a loss because I didn’t do anything wrong besides stay by my husband side and now this crazy lady won’t leave me me alone. I don’t honestly don’t know what to do. I didn’t sign up to raise another woman’s baby. I didn’t plan none of this, she did. I feel it kind of sucks that I’m Enemy number 1 and I did nothing wrong. I didn’t step out my marriage nor did I sleep with someone else husband. It’s frustrating because I don’t know what to do at this point but keep moving forward.