Would you be okay with your husband coming back home at 3-4 am everyday?

It has always been that way in our marriage. He says he’s with his friends or goes to his family and that it’s his right to. This is his routine: go to work at 11 am and come back home at 6 or 7 pm then stay home with kids and eat for 2-3 hours and then leave and come back at 3-4 am and repeat. I sometimes feel alone and wish he’d say longer even my kids have complained about him being always out cuz sometimes he complains about them visiting friends frequently they’re like you’re always out too he tells them I’m your dad it’s different.