Hi moms! Would you get a second c-section? Or try for a natural first but with a low risk of having your scar burst?

I was told recently by my Obgyn that I can still be a good candidate for a natural birth since I had one my first birth. I had a c-section about 1 year and 4 months ago. I was told that there’s a low risk that my scar could burst during birth and I could risk the baby to have brain damage etc.. She recommends trying for natural first and if nothing progresses then c-section. I honestly feel terrified of that low risk that she explained. All I can think about is how my cousin has cerebral palsy from getting oxygen reached to his head because they took very long to get my aunt a c-section. This was a very long time ago 40 years ago. I’am scared of risks of any kind that can be caused if I needed an emergency c-section. I don’t look forward to the recovery because this time I have a smaller baby who’s very wild and a wild toddler. My due date is basically when my toddler starts school. The timing is awful. The bright side is I can schedule it two weeks before and have enough time to recover and be there for my toddlers first day of school. But the thought of having to recover with two small children and also having my scar tear and I can’t carry my youngest is sad as well. I would also need help from my family which I dread. It would mean I would have everyone in my space or guilt tripping me someone wants to see the baby and me or having them control my own home. I like things a specific way and I have my way that I raise my children. In my culture they don’t respect that especially if they are helping you. I’am sure that would be thrown in my face but I would be an idiot and prideful if I didn’t ask for help when I do need it. What’s your experience and advice? Thank you in advance!