My husband never made me orgasm in 9 yrs!!

We have been together for 9 years. Have a 4 yr old and pregnant with second one. We love each other a lot. I am a very sexual and touchy person. He is not that touchy.

He never got me to orgasm once in our entire relationship. He always gets done first and i get it done to a lesbian porn which he licks my boobs and fingers me, while i rub my clit. It take about 10- 20 mins for me. I got bored and got a vibrator and its still fhe same.

He goes down on me once in a blue moon for may be like few seconds to a min. He fucks for may be 5 to 10 mins. He gets done quick and says he is efficient. We try different positions and it never exceeds 30 mins of this and that.

I am always looking at others and wondering if everyone’s sex life is the same?

I read online about husband’s / boyfriend’s getting their girls done. How do they do it?

Is there any hope for me? I want to get done by someone else for once. Is it even possible?

He uses vibrator during sex sometimes, i will be very aroused but wont get done.

Even solo i take about 10 to 15 mins. My mind keeps wandering if i dont use porn.