Should I leave him alone?

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I meant this guy in 2021 we was just friends with benefits. Fast forward to 2022 I get pregnant by him a few months we make it official. Six months later we both say I love you. Then I got pregnant again unfortunately I lost that baby and I when I told him that I was pregnant he said for now on we have to use protection ￼so i agreed. Well then we got a place together because we both was inlove with each other. He even said he wants me to have a son with him in a few years. But I don’t think he really loves me because he never broke up with me at least he never told me. So for the past couple months he say he just wants a casual relationship. He said he isn’t just is not monogamous so that hurts because I am in love with this guy. So I told him we can have a casual relationship. Which I never been in a casual relationship so i asked him what is the rules and he said I want you whenever I want no restrictions. My question is do you think i should leave this guy alone and just co-parent our daughter? ￼

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I would leave. A casual relationship with your child’s father just isn’t a good idea especially when you’re in love with him and want to be monogamous and he doesn’t feel the same. That’s just way too messy and could end badly. It’d be better to just cut things off clean and coparent

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So he wants you to live with him to be his maid & nanny, but he can cheat on you whenever he feels like it? Yeah, find some self respect and leave

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definitely leave

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Get outta there! Not a good role model to be raising a child with in the same household. You deserve real respect and commitment!

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So he can knock you up but cant commit to you? Girl, wake up.

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You will never be happy with what he is offering. If you both aren’t on the same page it is best to leave. He’s told you what he wants and it’s something most women would resent in the long run. He won’t change so you will be better to leave now and work on moving on.

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Yes leave him alone , you have a kid by him and he wants a “ casual relationship “ ? Girl that don’t even make sense.