Child’s father ???

So I recently was choked and abused by my child’s father , he stole my phone. Had a nervous break down and hid my car keys … and let’s not forget wouldn’t let me out of my house for hrs on December 21 2022 and I …of course pressed charges. They didn’t put him in jail until February 3rd being I drove to where he was and called the cops on him for them to arrest him. The courts gave him a no contact order to no talk to me etc. Baby due April 24 . His dad and family have all ghost me because he was arrested. When the situation first happened I told his dad them what happened and they were trying to convince me he “would be no good in jail for the baby “ …. So they wanted me to delete the police report before charges were filed through the state , but the state of course picked the charges up as soon as I made the report . So when he got arrested his dad and step mom ghost me . I tried to invite them to my baby shower and they acted as if they were going to attend it was in February 25 . I tried to invite them via text for two weeks and seen I was blocked but I just figured my child’s father must’ve blocked me from their phones a while back . So i whilst at my cousins house I stopped by and dropped some ultrasounds to them and invited them verbally and write all the baby shower info down for them . This was the 22nd of February. When I left they went and bonded my child’s father out of jail on the 23rd . So I was thinking they were gonna show up … well they didn’t . And then when I came by to ask them simply why they didn’t show up after taking my child’s ultrasound etc . They threatened to call the cops and my child’s grand father told me that I have to take care of the baby my self , it’s my responsibility , and that I need to handle it myself and to not worry about where my child’s father was . … and I just don’t know what to say about the situation . My child’s father begged for this baby . And though she will be loved regardless . I just can’t take him or his father serious at all . It’s as if because I’m a woman they do not care about anything I have to say . They don’t care about my safety or my child’s safety . The only thing they care about is him and him getting arrested . . Idk it keeps me up at night thinking of the nonsense and manipulative things I’ve been through during this pregnancy . The dad acts just like my child’s father . They are identical . I don’t stand a chance and I’m guessing I’m just gonna have to get the fuck on . I remember a while back I asked for help with something and my child’s father told me that his dad told him to get my child legitimized and not to help me with anything until then …. Any thoughts??