A question to women who grew up with a submissive mom and overbearing dad

What was your childhood like? What was your view of your parents? Did you think lesser of either of them? Did you feel that your mom was weak for not being more firm with your dad? Did you respect your father more because he was the “alpha”?

I’m asking because I have one year old with my husband. He’s become more overbearing (I guess that’s a word I’d use) in his demands of me as a wife and mother. He wasn’t always this way. But he raises his voice at me sometimes and things always (usually) have to be done his way. I am more submissive (as he pointed out several year ago in our relationship) and want everyone to be happy. But I don’t want my daughter to learn that it’s okay for men to be so argumentative and “I’m right you’re wrong”. I want her to grow up knowing that it is better to see eye to eye. If you grew up with parents like this (who stayed married) How did you turn out and what do you think of your own relationships and your parents?