So when I got first met my husband I could manage the extra hair and it wasn't as much. We weren't in the same house and I could look my best before meeting him.

I went through a few laser hair sessions because the hair growth became so much, really dark and thick, and I started having acne and spots.

After my wedding I could still somewhat manage and when I got pregnant the hair got worse.

Then with the baby and going through a lot of pressure once Covid started, I was under so much pressure that I lost control at some stage.

The hair became horrible, I carry a razor with me everywhere, I was relieved to wear a mask because no one would be able to see. If I leave at 7am after shaving my face, I would get hair back in my face by 2 or 3 pm.

I started wearing makeup because otherwise everyone would be able to see, and it's making my acne worst.

I didn't know this was even possible until it happened to me.

Even when I clean the areas, it stays very dark. I myself don't like looking at it. I even have hair around my nipples.

I went through another round of laser sessions but still the hair comes back fast. However, there is an improvement.

It's really hard to accept this myself and it took me time, it is hard when my husband comments on it in any way.

He keeps telling me I want you to be “clean”, he doesn't understand that when I clean any area of my body, the hair comes back the same day. I can't even wax because it causes pimples and under skin hair that my dermatologist told me not to do it.

My hormones are normal, I have PCOS and had an ovarian cyst removed back in 2016. I also have high liver’s enzymes and Sjögren’s syndrome (dryness). After having Covid last year my period became light but long (sometimes longer than 10 days) comparing to the past.

I need help… what solutions are there and does anyone go through the same… I really feel down and my husband is completely wrong for saying so I know, but my life is far too complicated, and it’s not because of the hair, he just doesn’t know how to act nicely unless he wants to.

I’m really feeling down, I don’t like going out a lot because of this and I lost my confidence,energy and my husband’s passion. He says I don’t have femininity and it breaks my heart and he’s mean to us sometimes with no reason other than his mood.

I feel lifeless because of all the problems he go through and would my partner to show support!

BLess you all for reading this.