This guy and I were friends with benefits for like a month October of senior year. It didn’t feel like a fwb, mainly because we both had feelings and had a solid friendship established prior. It felt like we were dating sometimes, but he didn’t want to commit. He ended things by ghosting me while we had class together, and I found out the reason from other people. He said that I was trying to turn it into a relationship, but I never explicitly talked to him about that, so I was a bit angry. I confronted him, saying how he made me feel and how I'm uninterested in a friendship, and he responded with a half-assed apology: “I’m sorry but we both knew it needed to end.” I didn’t respond to it.

Anyway, fast forward to now, he is cocky now and his ego is really big, just because I gave him play cause I loved him. I saw past all the red flags, and all I ever did was care about him. Keep in mind, we were each other’s first experience, First kiss and everything. We never had sex tho.

He’s telling people that he got head but they’ll never guess who he got it from, then says my name. During the fwb, we agreed to keep things private, so ik he's saying this stuff now. We aren't even on talking terms where I can tell him to stop. Then, he’s telling people how I couldn’t go past the head of his dick, which isn’t even true. It’s been maybe 4 or 5 months since I gave him head, and it makes me feel really uncomfortable and disrespected that he’s lying about it to make himself seem cool. I’ve always taken his feelings to account whenever someone asks about us. I never brought up personal intimate or embarrassing stuff, especially how he said “goo goo gah gah" while sucking my tit. I'm angry about how immature he is now, and I thought he was better than this. I know that's how guys talk to other guys, but I saw how much he liked all the intimate stuff, and he's telling people a handjob felt better? It's so weird because he's downplaying me, and it sounds like he's obsessed for someone who "doesn't care." I feel really embarrassed and objectified. His head game could’ve been a lot better too, but I don’t feel the need to discuss it because I know that we were both learning. Of course he's not going to talk about how we cuddled or the forehead kisses. I know my closest friends all know the true story, but I am tired of being the bigger person.

What should I do. Confronting him will feed the fire, and I don't think it's necessary.

TLDR: My ex fwb is lying about how “bad” I am at giving head, even though we aren’t on talking terms. It makes me feel like he never respected me.