Did you get pregnant knowing you were in a bad relationship?

Did you get pregnant knowing full well you were not in a good place with your partner? Maybe he's not a good provider, parner, good father to your other kids. Maybe he's a cheater but you wanted to make the relationship work.

I'm trying really hard not to judge my friend, but at this point I don't want to be involved. I don't want to help out and I don't want her to call me bitching and crying after we ALL!!!! Told her she should not get pregnant. Her husband works out of town most of the time so he's never there to help out with her other kid, she also knows he's cheating when he's away because she's gotten into his Snap and he flirts with women. He was pretty close with a waitress there.

When he comes home he likes to spend time with his coworkers drinking and coming home late, so even if he's home, he doesn't help with anything in the household or the baby. She toggles between divorcing and getting pregnant to fix the relationship.

Well, she's pregnant now, and she's calling because it's Saturday and instead of being with her, taking care of her because she's nauseous and tired because she's taking care of his other kid while going through pregnancy, he's out drinking, turned off his phone and his friend is posting pictures of them with girls at a bar.

She wanted me to come over and help because she's exhausted and I said no. I'm tired of exhausting myself mentally giving her advice and helping out, then later having to listen to the same bull as if it was so new and surprising. She's mad because people are not reacting super excited like they were with her sister. I just don't understand this mentality. I know I sound harsh but how stupid can you be to tolerate all this then expect sympathy when you full speed got into this mess?