I'm graduating this year and I started dating this guy a month ago. My best friend said he's really sweet he just has a "reputation" which I didn't know about at first. I asked what was this reputation and she said "You know how pansexuals like everyone?" I say yeah. She says "He REALLY likes everyone". Basically man whore who has had a lot of sex with guys and girls and everything in-between. I was also told that in the 8th grade a video went around of him giving a blow job.

I've been dating him and I do really like him. He's an amazing guy. Sex is amazing. He listens. He met my mom Saturday when we were at the farmers market. I don't live with my mom and haven't for a while but I guess my mom and step dad knew about his little reputation because my step dad kept making these snarky comments. He said "Well I hope you guys are being safe and that you buddy got an AIDS test!" He just kept saying things like that and my boyfriend walked off. I tried to talk to him and he asked why I didn't defend him. I said my step dad isn't anybody and he said it just would have been nice because he felt like I just stood their and let him rip into him for no reason. I say "It wasn't exactly no reason". And he asked me what that was supposed to mean and I said "I mean you know your reputation". He got upset and said "No. Elaborate. What's my reputation?" I didn't know what to say and he said he would talk to me later. I really upset him. And the truth is I really like him. I don't care about his past or who he's been with. I like HIM! And I'm scared I fucked it up.