Are my feelings valid or am I just being hormonal
I’m pregnant with my last baby and it’s a very high risk complicated pregnancy that I need a lot of lab work done for. I need to get some labs done before my appointment but my boyfriend has a busy schedule and has been working all week so on his day off I asked him if he could take me to get my labs done which turned into an argument him telling me “why last minute did you ask to get your labs ?! It’s literally my only day off and I don’t want to be out all day dude.” I ended up telling him to forget it and that I would just ask my dad to take me since it’s that much of an inconvenience. I get lightheaded and tend to pass out from blood drawls so I prefer having support with me in case I do pass out / need help walking back to the car which he knows and has witnessed as well as my family . He then said “that’s on you I never said no” I left it alone but my feelings were very hurt. Then at 11:00 at night he went to go drop off his sisters necklace that she left that morning with no problem told her it was ok and that he didn’t mind doing that for her. He didn’t come home until 1 AM and I felt hurt that when I asked him to take me to get my blood drawn I was met with eye rolls “ughhs” and a rude tone but when his sister could’ve gotten her necklace the next day after he got out of work he told her not to worry about it that he “got her”
I don’t mean to compare myself to his sister whatsoever I have sisters who I love and would do anything for too but what gets to me is the fact I was an inconvenience for asking for him to come with me to get my blood drawn but he didn’t mind driving in the middle of the night to go drop off a necklace for her. Am I wrong for feeling hurt ? How would you guys feel ? Advice please.
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