Last time that I did a birthday for my son everything was left a mess all the toys were left outside only 2 people helped me and no kids parents that made a mess helped either even though I had a jumper for the kids

😭. I’m making my other son a birthday but I think this time I’m hiding all the toys in the living rooms locking my rooms . And I was thinking even of locking my door 😭 and only opening it for the restroom. Idk if I’m being rude or am I wrong? I’m also having another jumper and this time taking out our swings & slides. Idk if I’m wrong for doing this. But I’m currently pregnant and by the time of June I’ll probably be bigger I just don’t want so much mess and having to do it all I know it’s a birthday but their should also respectful