* I have a history of being sexually assaulted/harassed a lot over the past year, so I want to make sure I’m not projecting. I haven’t straight forward said “no” but I just feel weird and I don’t lead him on at all. So just looking for opinions*

I’ve been at a new job for a month now. I recently connected with someone that I met from my orientation and we both started at the same time. Everything was fine for a couple days but then he was telling me that he writes stories and mentioned that they were romantic and sexually descriptive at times. We were joking around and he mentioned letting me read them. I said I would read it and I think he took that as a green light because he then started asking me if I like BDSM. I was in shock and just didn’t really say anything. Since then, he mostly talks to me like normal but at times mentions really weird shit, like saying that he’ll hog tie me or wait in the back room naked for me. I just brush it off. I know that sounds really weird, but I’ve just had such bad encounters that it’s become like a normal so it’s easy for me to ignore it. Until today, he was showing me scars from where his ex stabbed him and then all of a sudden, with no warning, pulled his pants down to, I guess, show me another one. Thankfully he had shorts on underneath but.. still. I just walked away. I don’t know what to think