Is this a red flag ?!?!

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My boyfriend is taking a trip to Japan with his 2 homies. Although there has never been cheating in our relationship. Long story short, We did break up for 3 months and just got together a month ago. We were together 2 years. Well he has a list on his phone of many female coworkers of souveniers hes buying them in Japan?? He said he was getting me some things. But why HIS FEMALE COWORKERS. He also said one of his coworkers had a crush on him and shes on his list of gifts to buy things for? Like wtf? What makes me special then if Hes buying all these other bitches gifts. Im done. I just want to break up with him for good. 
We used to work together, thats how we met. Hes a very friendly guy with everyone at work. But we broke up for a bit, he said his female coworker had a crush on him, so why the fuck is he getting her a gift from Japan is my question. I feel ordinary to him. If he treats every girl this way, what sets me apart? Should i break things off or no

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why did u get back together w him.. it’s pretty obvious y’all need to break up and stay broken up

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The only red flag here is you

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Being friendly with coworkers is normal, has he given you any other reason to be suspicious? Japan is a very unique country that not many people get the chance to visit, so it makes sense that people are asking for a souvenir, or that he wants to bring gifts as a way to share his experience with friends. You sound immature and jealous, if you can't trust, maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship right now.

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My old boss used to buy me a present every time he travelled overseas. There was absolutely nothing romantic going on there in any way, shape or form. So not a red flag for me - people just want something cool from other parts of the world.

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Break up/make up never works out. Just end it and move on. It ended the first time for a reason. It’s clear you don’t trust him.

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I don't think there's anything wrong with getting his coworkers a souvenir. I think the main issue is that if you don't trust him, this is the wrong relationship for you. If something feels off to you, I think that's valid. But you should be with someone you trust. Someday you'll be with someone who gets souvenirs for their coworkers, but still, you know how special you are. Believe that! This guy ain't the one.

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These are obviously friends. Being upset because he has women friends is toxic. So is calling women bitches. There is no trust between the two of you. These are red flags. 
Having friends of the opposite sex and bringing home souvenirs for them isn’t. If you’re feeling uncomfortable because one of these women has a “crush” then you need to discuss it with your partner.

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In my old workplace whenever anyone was going abroad that person would always ask if we wanted anything brought back. It's just something that we done. I wouldn't look at this as a big deal

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I don’t see an issue with him getting souvenirs for coworkers. Most souvenirs are cheap and it’s thoughtful. I do see an insecurity issue on your part. You shouldn’t have gotten back together because it’s clear you don’t trust him.

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Are they his equals or his subordinates ?

Is this a red flag ?!?!

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