Maybe it reall just is me

This has been on my mind sense it happened my husband texted me while he was at work and said he wanted to fool around that night when the kids went to bed. ( normally it’s just I get him off before we go to bed) I said okay I’ll get you off tonight and he said no I want you to get off as well I said okay normally when we have sex or mess around it’s I get him off and I just go to bed or to take care of a child and that’s okay because there’s no mention of me getting off ( I have no sex drive or desire to get off in the beginning of our relationship I did but now it’s gone after 3 back to back pregnancies) but he made it clear he wanted me to get mine as well . So when night comes we have sex and he finished he tells me to get my toy and do what I needed to and left the room 🙃 sat on the couch and started watching tv I come out and he’s like did you get off I said no it died he said why don’t you charge it ? And the baby is gonna fall off the couch I’ve moved him up 2 times… I just have no sexual desire what so ever sex feels like a chore