Is sex supposed to be this way?

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Is it normal for your partner to always want sex? I mean like he talks about it everyday. I don’t really like sex because I honestly don’t think it’s that good. I don’t really enjoy it and it feels like a chore to me. He on the other hand is obsessed. He touches my butt any chance he gets, talks dirty all the time, insinuates it, etc. I’ve already told him how annoying it is. We can’t even have a normal conversation without him making a sexual remark. I’m starting to get the ICK from him. He’s on the smaller side so I don’t get much pleasure, like he does. He can also be such a jerk to me too which throws me off unless he knows he’s gonna get some that night. He just sounds so thirsty to me. Idk thoughts?

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If sex feels like a chore with them, they aren’t right for you. You two are very different sexually and should probably part ways. It sounds like there’s very little comparability.

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If sex always feels like a chore, you get no pleasure from it, he’s a jerk, and he doesn’t respect your boundaries of not making everything sexual then there’s no point in staying with him.  There’s no physical or sexual compatibility.

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y’all aren’t compatible

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My husband slaps me on the 🍑 any chance he gets, he’s always grabbing me and saying dirty stuff in my ear… I’d say the marked difference here is that I LOVE it and return it. We both have really high sex drives so I can’t say for sure. He wants it minimum once a day but honestly before we had kids it was 2-4 times a day 😅 he’s said that he still wants it as much as back then, we just don’t have time as often cause we have kids around lol. 
We typically have it daily, sometimes 2-3 times on the weekend days if we are able to. 
Stuff between us always was and still is extremely satisfying and enjoyable, but we are pretty wild in the bedroom so idk. 
Id say if you’re feeling that way perhaps try to examine and pinpoint the key things that would improve this for you! Whether you need more foreplay, longer time involved, more help around the house, etc. and then discuss those with him! Make it a positive thing, where you’re reassuring him that you do want him, you just need things to be a little bit better so y’all can enjoy one another more effectively. 
There’s this dumb joke about how men want women to make sandwiches after sex and my husband always says: if she’s actually capable of walking to a kitchen and making you a dang sandwich afterwards, you’re doing it wrong 😂
And as far as i know from chatting with my married friends, their husbands feel the same. 
So there’s a perfectly decent chance that your man feels the same and will want to change things up so you’re more satisfied too! ❤️

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Some people have lower sex drive, some others have really high sex drive. Both my husband and I have a very high sex drives. So maybe y’all are not sexually compatible 🤷🏻‍♀️

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You're not compatible. Break up

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Theres no way things should or shouldn’t be but if you don’t like it then why are you allowing it.

Is sex supposed to be this way?

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