I’m almost Halfway thru my pregnancy and my partner lives in another country and refuses to tell me when he will be here to support me. My biggest fear Is how I know personally I won’t want him to come out potentially at all if he doesn’t come soon b/c I have a boundary where I want him and I to be involved in a relationship together (not just with this baby). If he doesn’t come out for another month or two, I genuinely feel like i have the pregnant right to do whatever I want. If he doesn’t come out till right before birth I don’t think I will ever feel truly loved by him, but almost used and resentful towards him.

Can you ladies tell me if I’m being fair or just hormonal ? What would you do if you had no support system and group of friends ?

How do your boyfriends or parents help you ladies?

I have a 8 year old son I JUST told over spring break that he’s going to have a baby sister and he has a very normal fear that he will be replaced but luckily is excited 😊 I can’t drop everything to go with my partner and get on a 24-34 hour flight (I flew back alone and I can’t

Imagine doing it there AND back unless he came

With me). He says he needs to be there to work but he doesn’t have a job and I am selling everything I have and he says I’m in too much debt for him to come here. I can still keep doing everything I’m doing with him physically here. I have offered to fly there if he flew back with me

And stay a couple weeks max bc of free health insurance and my son and my dog (he says things like “only if u get rid of the dog” 😳

What should I do bc I am waking up depressed and ready for the day to be over and o should be enjoying this as I’m Getting older and this will most likely be the last baby I have :(

I love Him ,But I feel like I need him to be physically there for me after being alone here for over 2 months.