Any of your ladies had a hard time trying to convince with your first ? any tips for first timers? I am going on my 9th cycle and nothing yet been off birth control for about 2 years now but just started about 9 months ago we were using condoms before and decided we were finally ready I had a chemical pregnancy back in October and I don’t understand why it hasn’t happened yet it’s been so hard and a roller coaster of emotions especially seeing the disappointment in my husband’s face as each month I tell him I got my period and no baby yet 😞