Personal Donor

Hubby and I have been trying to conceive on and off for years, with no luck. It's to the point now in our life that it need ms to happen soon. The infertility is on my hubbys side. Due to our financial status IVF, IUI, any clinic procedures are not an option right now.

Has anyone convinced by Al with a personal sperm donor? Friend you know, or friends hubby.... Ect....

If so how did you ask and what was the process. We are getting desperate, with an 18 year age gap me 31 and him 49 we feel as we are running out of time.

HELPPPP PLEASE WITH ADVICE!