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You have to get out of this mindset, don't fall into this victim mentality. You very much know that this is a result of HIS crappy behavior and not at all your fault. As Nelson Mandela said "I never lose, I either win or learn." Take this as a learning lesson. You will have so much experience going into your next relationship, just don't fall into this bitter pit where no one will pull you out.
That’s what I get for trying
So for a month and a half I was seeing this guy I’d met around a year ago at a previous job. We were friends nothing more.
I decided to give him a chance and open myself back up to love. Wrong decision. Not only did he consistently lie and hide things because “he was afraid I’d get mad” and granted I am a pretty understanding person.. however he also cheated several times in that very short relationship.
We ended it peacefully or so I thought. I got a message last Friday saying I gave him chlamydia. I get panels done before and after sleeping with someone. I’m a clean person and need to know I’m good. Mine came up negative for anything before we slept together. After he dropped the ball on me, I find out that I have chlamydia as well.
The cheating has already come to light at this point and I handled it with grace. So he starts blaming me for him having it.. I was livid because I produced the panels for him. He had proof I was clean. That’s what I get for not making him do it too. So that’s what I get for trying to open back up and date again.
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No, this is what you get for having unprotected sex with a virtual stranger. Condoms prevent chlamydia 98% of the time - so maybe I shouldn’t jump to conclusions. Did you use protection correctly, and every time?
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This isn’t just about the sex. It’s about the lying, cheating and hiding stuff for whatever reason he can justify himself. And no I did not, that’s on me. I trusted him to be upfront with me and learned later he didn’t know how to
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