So for a month and a half I was seeing this guy I’d met around a year ago at a previous job. We were friends nothing more.

I decided to give him a chance and open myself back up to love. Wrong decision. Not only did he consistently lie and hide things because “he was afraid I’d get mad” and granted I am a pretty understanding person.. however he also cheated several times in that very short relationship.

We ended it peacefully or so I thought. I got a message last Friday saying I gave him chlamydia. I get panels done before and after sleeping with someone. I’m a clean person and need to know I’m good. Mine came up negative for anything before we slept together. After he dropped the ball on me, I find out that I have chlamydia as well.

The cheating has already come to light at this point and I handled it with grace. So he starts blaming me for him having it.. I was livid because I produced the panels for him. He had proof I was clean. That’s what I get for not making him do it too. So that’s what I get for trying to open back up and date again.