So I’m dealing with a situation here that I need your help!! Here we go!! 😓.. So my boyfriend came to a foreign country to start his life with me and we planned on establishing our careers and growing out family. So he doesn’t have any kids and I do have a toddler. I didn’t wanted anymore kids and was going to stand by it. So I kinda of gave in to give him a biology kid. He treats my toddler like his own. I said ok this is a great man at I’d give it a shot. Fast forward I’m almost 7 months pregnant, the pregnancy is high risk be a I have had a number of 5 miscarriages ( he knows this), plus I’m unemployed before of my complications. With my first child I was on strict pelvic rest ( no sex for the entire pregnancy) not even any sexual acts the doctors said because they don’t want my cervix to get any kind of excited!! So it’s the same with this pregnancy and at a doctors appointment it was mentioned to my boyfriend as well. He “understood” well so I thought !!! So he started to ask me for sexual acts even or it was orals or a hand job. At 1st I was like what is he really doing knowing the circumstances. So one time I gave in at about 18 weeks where I felt sort of comfortable being passed the 1st trimester. We ended up having a very fast encounter with bare penetration. Me as his woman feeling sorry for this man. Then I realized that he started to make more and more advances and some of them I’d just go with the flow. Fast forward again he to me where I was laying on my lazy boy chair about to go to sleep and he just came pants off penis hard so I’m like wat the heck!!! He ask for a hand job initially but I knew darn well it was sex he was after. So after fussing I gave in, I told him I don’t wan be aroused, no stimulation I’ll just perform the hand act, he went Achaean and tried to put his hand in my bra smh. At this point in my pregnancy my belly is as big as a 9 month pregnancy belly and I am so sick and always uncomfortable. Two days later he came with the same advances wants a hand job.. so I said didn’t you release yourself two days ago how are you in that much of a need already and that he has to be mad! That’s exactly what I said. So he want I’m being selfish and unreasonable and it does matter if he released himself how many time he’s asking his woman to to make him “feel good”.. then he went on the say that’s how men does step out and he’s not going through this when we get married that he’s limited sex cuz he went through this in his previous marriage and this relationship isn’t for him of this is what it is. So today he turns around and said that sec is one of his main priorities in a relationship/marriage which for me is not. I’m about housing myself and creating a great life for my kids. Don’t give me wrong it is a part of a relationship but it’s not a priority. He was stunned at my response. In the beginning of our relationship instead old him I can live without sex.. it wasn’t a problem then. So this man said to me that that he is not settling and there is no middle point for him and he’s going back to his home country !!!!!!!!!!

I would love honest feedback from both you ladies and gentlemen in this group!!! What are your views on this??

Sorry for the very long rant and post !!😂