I’m getting married June 28, ‘23! It’s both the happiest and now saddest time of my life. I’m honored to be marrying my safe heaven & father of my two children! But recently my MAID OF HONOR quit on me and told my son to tell me that she’s not “going to my bachelorette” which in my mind tripped me out because she was the one throwing it so how can you “not go?” The reason behind it? I gave our older sister, my little sisters number without a heads up or asking for permission. Honestly I’ve done so much for my little sister and im just over her mistreatment towards me and the complete disregard of my emotions. Someone please explain to me how giving my older sister my little sisters number leads to my wedding being affected? I’m so over being hurt or sad. And to top it off my mother is a narcissist who when I told her I was getting married she said “for what? You already have two kids!” She then said “well hopefully my man proposes too” This is supposed to be something AMAZING! And my family has made it about them. I’ve ordered my dress online because I know I will cry if I try on dresses and don’t have my mom there or my little sister. I want to celebrate ME! & my accomplishments! & my happiness. So im throwing my own bridal shower! I’m standing up for me and showing myself if they don’t love me then that’s all right, I know that there’s people who don’t have to be your blood relative that will show me love. I trust that the universe will guide me through this tough time too.