upset..

I’m trying sooo hard in my relationship right now and my baby is 4 months old and super clingy and that’s okayy but my boyfriend doesn’t understand that i am all touched out and he doesn’t understand that I am also going through postpartum.. he says i don’t let him touch me and i’m trying to explain to him what I go through but he makes it seem as if i just don’t want to. I literally have been trying to be affectionate with him and have sex with him when he wants to and he doesn’t see that. he compares me to other females saying they have multiple kids and still let their mama touch them , he then says we aren’t a normal relationship but even with me talking to him he doesn’t understand..i’m trying i really am…