Should I be worried…

Me (16) and my boyfriend (16) have been together a little of 10 months. All 10 months, he has told me he never watches porn, and I didn’t really care if he did or didn’t. Recently him and I were hanging out with my best friend and her boyfriend after our prom. Her and I were taking pictures on my boyfriends phone because he was half asleep across the room. We then saw that he had the internet browser “duck duck go”. I let my curiosity get the best of me because most people have that app strictly to watch porn. I was right, he had porn pulled up. It was on a website called “Motherless.com,” at first I didn’t care but then I saw what he was looking up. It’s called “Snuff,”. Snuff is a extremely violent type of porn in which it shows someone ((normally the women)) being murdered during sex.

I don’t know if I should be worried or not. We’ve yet to have sex so I don’t know what he’s actually into and I would like to ask him what this means but I don’t want him to get upset with me for finding out. What do you guys think?

Note : He also had the website goreish pulled up on a non private browser which is pictures of people with bad energy’s and videos of gross deaths. He’s a history geek especially when it comes to violent wars. He’s never been violent with me and he’s actually a super sweet and caring guy.

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Ha

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Run fast and far. Major red flags.

Je

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I don’t think liking history has anything to do with this. However it is extremely troubling that he is into violent porn and has lied about it. I would definitely have a conversation with him and if he continues to lie and manipulate I would strongly consider ending the relationship. If you feel that it’s weird and is not something you can overcome after your conversation, again I suggest ending things.

Ja

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That’s a big no. Run

K

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Yikes, no thanks. Sounds like a really good thing y’all have NOT had sex yet.

K

K • Apr 27, 2023
Leo, just because he hasn’t been violent with you, doesn’t mean he doesn’t fantasize about it. 😳

Ja

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run girl.

Ca

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girl i would be concerned and for sure wouldn’t have sex with him

L

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Run, don’t walk.

Mi

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WELL..U CAN EITHER DROP HIS ASS AS FAST AS POSSIBLE & GET AS FAR AWAY FROM HIM AS ABLE & DELETE HIS NUMBER/BLOCK...OR..U CAN STICK AROUND & FIND OUT 1ST HAND WHETHER OR NOT HE WILL ACT ON THOSE DISTURBING SEXUAL URGES...IF SEEING THAT KIND OF STUFF DOESN'T HAVE U IMMEDIATELY RUNNING 4 THE HILLS & REPULSED/SCARED..THEN THERES SOMETHING SERIOUSLY NOT RIGHT WITH U MENTALLY OR U PLAY TOO MANY VIOLENT VIDEO GAMES & HAVE BECOME DESENSITIZED & SHOULD SEEK THERAPY ASAP