My boyfriend didn’t get me nothing Valentine’s Day or my birthday also other holidays for the last two years and we been together for 3. We also have a 6 month old. The first year he got me flowers and a pandora bracelet and a forever rose. But that’s it. So I know he’s capable of being romantic and valuing me.

Every holiday even if I’m broke or whatever I always get him something. This Valentine’s Day I made him a poem and I wrote literally a 3 page essay on why and how I loved him and the things I loved about him. I got him Norman’s chocolate and flowers. He loved it he says. He didn’t even try the chocolates just one and he said he didn’t like it. It kinda broke me bc I was so excited picking out the flavors for him. But he didn’t get me nothing at all and usually works out of town but he knew he was coming back in town 2 days later And I had my hopes up he didn’t even put in a thought to get me nothing.

Today is my birthday I’ve been telling him for months what I would love to do just to throw hints and stuff Ill love to receive isn’t expensive or the things I wanna do isn’t either. This time he told me he was broke but something I can’t shake off the fact I think he wasn’t. We’re very open about our finances and last time I recall he had savings. I didn’t come home to nothing. I was so heartbroken again and I thought just maybe I’ll have something. No flowers no nothing.

This is what he texted me for Valentine’s Day

And this is what he texted me for my birth day

And I’m so embarrassed I’m already thinking of what I should get him for his birthday in July. I feel like he doesn’t value me anymore or he’s no longer interested