My dad had an older sibling who passed away as an infant. All he knew about her growing up was that her name was Mary (she was often referred to as little Mary) and she died from crib death. Earlier I did a free ancestry.com trial and I was looking up my grandfather, my dad’s dad, and that led me to her obituary. It had her date of birth and date of her death (April 23 1951 and January 7th 1952.) It also says where she is buried which honestly I never thought about before. And that got me to thinking that in all these years, she probably had no visitors which breaks my heart. I feel good though in a way because now my dad knows more about her. He is also thinking of getting a tattoo in her memory.