Overwhelmed need advice

Hey ladies. I currently have a 12month old and currently 12 weeks pregnant. I got fired from my job in February and recently took on a job that I start tomorrow $18hr, my husband started a new job before me working at a restaurant as a cook $18.15 an hour. We’re sharing a car and can’t afford nor do we want to put our child in daycare. When i was pregnant my husband and i came up with a system that works for us (working opposite shift) so someone is always home with the baby and like I said it’s been working until life happened this past December. I’m frustrated and don’t know what to do I can take this job because I schedules collide….i was offered help from two close people to help with our baby but idk id rather be home with him. So my husband said he’ll just work doubles because he doesn’t want to quit his job and i be the only one working until he finds something… i would just have to be okay with not doing nice things for myself because all the money is going towards bills and our kids needs.. what should i do? Please save the “this why i dont have kids until i can afford it” because im sure your life isnt perfect neither I’m genuinely asking for help for the future