My boyfriend has trouble getting it up. We've been trying and it takes ages and he still doesn't orgasm, he comes but doesn't reach his high points and I think it's because he can't feel anything with the condom on. Does anyone else have this problem and how'd you work around it? I need him to wear a condom, I can go on the pill and make sure he's safe but it's too much trouble and I'd rather use a Condom