My husband and I have used condoms for the past 6 years but I personally hate the way they feel and so does my husband. I've tried the pill but I'm so bad at remembering to take pills on a daily basis I don't want to risk anything. I've also tried the depo shot and it worked wonders but I gained 20 pounds every time I took it (3 times). I'm debating getting an IUD but I've heard so many horror stories that I'm almost scared to even try. I really need a reliable form of birth control other than condoms. Any suggestions?