Im so annoyed

My bd plays sports over seas. He told me the next time he gets an offer he’s taking my son and I. Well he got an offer from a team that said they wouldn’t want that cause they want him to focus. According to him. He could’ve turned it down and waited for another offer but he didn’t. We’ve been together 4 yrs and he’s said for a while he will propose soon. Obviously hasn’t. So I said if he goes by hisself the only way I’ll stay is if we get couples counseling and he works on a ring. Cause I’m tired of doing wifey shit when I’m not even close to being a wife.

He agreed to it and seemed excited. Now it just seems he’s making excuses not to get a ring and hasn’t been looking into counseling and he leaves for basketball Monday.

The money he was gonna make overseas he was gonna use to pay apartment bills since I can’t work while he’s gone. He saying if we break up he ain’t paying bills. Idk what to do.