How to raise sex drive

My sex drive is incredibly low. I take birth control (it’s been 2 years since I started for PCOS) and I’ve been wondering if that was a major factor to it. My boyfriend and I have only had sex 5 times since we both lost our virginities to eachother. And those 5 times are spread out by probably once or twice a month. Not much.

Everytime I have sex, I don’t know if I’m still new to it. It still hurts and I don’t really find pleasure that would make me want to do it again. I’ve never orgasmed from my G-spot before or even at all during sex. I believe that’s another reason why I don’t have interest in sex, since I don’t really feel anything mind blowing.

Is there anyway I can fix this? May I receive recommendations and tips? Maybe even masterbation tips so I can at least have myself orgasm for the first time at my G-spot and I can show my boyfriend later HAHA.

Like I feel bad that I’m saying “fine” to sex when my boyfriend asks instead of “yes yes yes” you know?

Any help is much appreciated :)

OH AND ALSO, a bit awkward of a question. There’s times where I’ll have sex with my bf, and I want to “pee” but I usually have him slow down so I don’t actually “piss” on him even if my bladder isn’t full. Could that be an orgasm on its way? And I don’t even know it?