Do you ever feel..

Do you girls ever feel not good enough...or fearful that your boyfriend friends won't like you....my boyfriend's friends have some what negative opinions on me because of what he told them...he says he loves me and I shouldn't care but...his friends wouldn't have such negative options if I he didn't somewhat agree with them right? What if I changed..not for him but just in general..I struggled with being "perfect" for my family all the time and I just don't know how I can make myself more likable or...idk .-.