41 y/o - first IVF. Low eggs and waiting for blastocyst stage

Hi everyone . I am 41 years old (soon to be 42 in two days). We did our first round of IVF… 6 follicles - only 3 were mature and those 3 were fertilized. Day 5 today - got my first email. One embryo is in early blastocyst, one is also in early blastocyst (poor quality ) and one multicell (which is I understand.. that one won’t make it) I am nervous about any of them reaching blastocyst… and then PGT. We live in CA so the cost was close to $30k so getting another loan if this fails probably won’t b an option. My husband also had low speed count and low mobility. I have been on tik tok looking at stories trying to find women close to my age with lower number and success rates. Has anyone had similar numbers ?