My husband plays poker online pretty much everyday. Sometimes, he stays out way too late the few times he plays in person. I am concerned for his safety driving back home late at night...... he keeps saying he doesn't see his poker friends that often and it's gonna be a big party thing. He can do it fine, but the whole point is that I don't want him to die on me and our little ones being out so late in downtown area. All the crazy drivers come out at night! He said he's gonna go... despite my feelings about it. His mom doesn't like him being out late, my mom doesn't like it. I don't like it. They are actually concerned about addiction. He makes a lot of money but still... he can hang out with his friends, but late at night?!?! He doesn't care about my feelings about this. This is becoming an issue......

Am I being crazy?!?!? I feel like I'm being gaslighted.