Hey I’d love a outsides view on this situation - basically this time last year my 11 year long partner had a thing with one of the mums at my daughters school, none physical but inappropriate talks, told her he wants to get to know her, told her he was single and we were not together etc. apparently nothing more. Back story he has always been very insecure with me, always has accused me of being disloyal, now and then makes comments about what I wear, what I post of socials. Even accusing me of fancying other people. I immediately switch off from him, don’t want to spend time with him and just do my own thing because it’s literally draining. Anyway after that school mum situation we sorted everything out and got married 🫠 with hopes he would rain in the accusations and we would work on ourselves. We also have 3 kids. Well that was all going to plan, until…shock… the accusations start again. Here and there - nothing major but enough for me to slip into I’ve had enough and I’m not focusing my energy on you and carry on with my daily, I’ll just add, I still call and text check in on him, the usual. You had a good day, try spend time alone with him. He says nothing I do is enough, I don’t show enough affection or spend time with him hence he says my “behaviour” triggers his insecurities. I’ve been loyal since the beginning, he’s never had any doubt not to trust me. So 2 days ago he’s accusing me of fancying someone I’ve just met at a new gym class, the guy works there! Following that a huge row erupted as he thinks I’m inappropriately talking to his best friend /best man behind his back, telling me somethings going on between us. Honestly I’ve had enough it’s a joke! A new low tbh saying I’d go behind his back with his best friend 😑 it’s so hard though as he is a

Amazing dad/ does absolutely everything for all of us couldn’t fault him apart from this trait he has. I told him 3 months ago to seek therapy as we nearly broke up it was so bad…. He didn’t bother yet this time he has therapy booked for Monday coming as he will do anything to fix it… not sure what to do, I’m concerned why his behaviour is like this. You know the one accusing is usually the one up to no good