Feeling like I hate my husband right now

I have a daughter by another man . And she 4. We co parent great no drama we work together for my daughter  and that's it. My husband doesn't like when he talks to me about our daughter  and  her schedule. My husband will never understand that there's no drama there's nothing between us . So today I told my husband that my daughter father called he got so mad . He started talking shit to me . Saying why don't I be with him and saying so opened my legs and had kids . I only have two . And ones my husbands and pregnant with our 2second together . Some of the stuff he said was really mean and hurtful . And he doesn't think he did anything wrong. Called me names . Telling me I should get a apt. Like really I have to co parent with someone and there's no drama.. I feel heartbroken and hurt