Should I have asked?

Jess

So I’m a single mom and my baby daddy has a sister so basically the aunt of my daughter who In the past we had our problems wanted to take her out today and asked me yesterday if I was fine with her taking her out with her husband at 10 am, me always tryna please people even if I’m not okay I said yes just to not escalate the problem. She never told me where she was taking her that’s my problem, and as a mom I feel I should know, if I ask her dad he will just get mad and tell me to ask the sister and that he doesn’t know, this isn’t a big deal but kinnda is because I just wanna make sure she’s good… I feel like I failed .. my daughter went with her aunt and im home wondering why I didn’t ask…